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Florida’s ‘Don’t Say Gay’ Bill Will Leave More Sexual Abuse Survivors Like Me in the Dark

CW: discussion around CSA, queerphobia, and transphobia Ever since the rise of the “Don’t Say Gay” bill here in Florida, I’ve seen hundreds of parents backing it under the guise of protecting their children from grooming. So many parents are conflating sex education, and learning about gender and attraction outside…

Queerness

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Florida’s ‘Don’t Say Gay’ Bill Will Leave More Sexual Abuse Survivors Like Me in the Dark
Florida’s ‘Don’t Say Gay’ Bill Will Leave More Sexual Abuse Survivors Like Me in the Dark

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The Heavy Cost of Strength: The Weight of Being Black, Queer, & Disabled

in·ter·sec·tion·al·i·ty /ˌin(t)ərsekSHəˈnalədē/ noun the interconnected nature of social categorizations such as race, class, and gender as they apply to a given individual or group, regarded as creating overlapping and interdependent systems of discrimination or disadvantage. “through an awareness of intersectionality, we can better acknowledge and ground the differences among us” …

Disability

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The Heavy Cost of Strength: The Weight of Being Black, Queer, & Disabled
The Heavy Cost of Strength: The Weight of Being Black, Queer, & Disabled

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Society Is Continuing to Gaslight People With Long COVID and Other Post-Viral Illnesses

Two years. For nearly two years, it feels like I’ve been gaslit. I remember in the beginning how much we were told that COVID-19 wouldn’t be that serious, it wouldn’t last that long, it would be akin to the common cold and less severe than the flu. I was already…

Disability

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Society Is Continuing to Gaslight People With Long COVID and Other Post-Viral Illnesses
Society Is Continuing to Gaslight People With Long COVID and Other Post-Viral Illnesses

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No, I Don’t Need to Forgive You to Heal From My Trauma

When I was younger, I would always hear my elders telling me something along the lines of, “forgive so-and-so for you.” And, “If you don’t forgive, you can’t move on.” Whenever I was upset about someone doing me wrong, I was pushed to forgive them and get over it. It…

Trauma

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No, I Don’t Need to Forgive You to Heal From My Trauma
No, I Don’t Need to Forgive You to Heal From My Trauma

Mar 29

Remembering All the Times I Thought About Leaving You

CW: discussions of emotional abuse It was a little over a year and a half into the relationship. I’d just gotten home from getting a new piercing and I was texting updates on my day. I was so excited. This was something daring and new and I still couldn’t believe…

Abusive Relationships

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Remembering All the Times I Thought About Leaving You
Remembering All the Times I Thought About Leaving You

Mar 4

What It Was Like to Get My First Infusion Treatment for M.E.

It had been weeks of the worst flare I’d ever gone through and I was only getting worse. I could barely sit up for more than a few minutes at a time and the fatigue grew more and more each day. I’m used to feeling like death is knocking at…

Myalgic Encephalomyelitis

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What It Was Like to Get My First Infusion Treatment for M.E.
What It Was Like to Get My First Infusion Treatment for M.E.

Mar 4

What Having My Hair Braided Feels Like as a Black Autistic Person

The chair feels like I’m seated on a cast iron pan set over a fire. The longer I sat, the more I desperately needed to get up. Fidgeting and squirming, constantly repositioning myself, it’s like I could feel every single second in my bones. It feels like I’m being touched…

Autism

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What Having My Hair Braided Feels Like as a Black Autistic Person
What Having My Hair Braided Feels Like as a Black Autistic Person

Feb 15

What Hair Wash Day Is Like When You’re Disabled

Doing my hair and getting my hair done has always been a struggle. Back in the days of creamy crack relaxers, head hanging over the kitchen sink, eyes closed tight to keep the shampoo out, and hours of sitting on the floor, squirming and readjusting while my cousin, auntie, the…

Disability

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What Hair Wash Day Is Like When You’re Disabled
What Hair Wash Day Is Like When You’re Disabled

Jan 3

Dear Ableds, Stop Making Fun of Gadgets That Help Disabled People

Not everything is made for you and that’s an understandably difficult pill to swallow. We live in a world where inaccessibility is the default; where tools that are created to make things easier are heavily scrutinized, deemed “lazy,” and called “useless.” “But ____ is such an easy thing to do…

Disability

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Dear Ableds, Stop Making Fun of Gadgets That Help Disabled People
Dear Ableds, Stop Making Fun of Gadgets That Help Disabled People

Oct 25, 2021

What I Realized About My Mortality and Chronic Illness

I’m afraid of death. Petrified of it actually. Having anxiety with intrusive thoughts means that I tend to think about death way more than the average, neurotypical person does, which doesn’t help the fear. …

Death And Dying

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What I Realized About My Mortality and Chronic Illness
What I Realized About My Mortality and Chronic Illness
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